Fantasia

by hot mama

My favourite time to masturbate is first thing in the morning when it's my turn to sleep in. I love to wake up leisurely and start the day with a luxurious solo orgasm.

I've masturbated for as long as I can remember. I remember getting caught by my mother when I was about nine and getting in trouble for it. Can you believe that? I'm glad we're a little more enlightened these days.

I'm an efficient masturbator: I don't need any motorized accessories, jellies or phallus shaped objects (though those can be fun too--a topic for another post perhaps). No, I just need my adept fingers, a little pressure against my clit and my dirty, dirty mind.

My sexual fantasies are many and varied, but the ones that get me off most quickly are the ones where I'm submissive. I have many different scenarios: wench in a tavern, reporter in a locker room, warden in a prison riot. They all involve my being helpless and defenceless in a roomful of brutes.

I used to worry I was weird (what kind of feminist fantasizes about rape?) until I read Nancy Friday's  Women On Top. Turns out submissive fantasies are very common (Friday has a theory they are a way to reconcile the "good girls don't" morality pounded into us since childhood). Women are fantasizing about some pretty crazy stuff (it's a great book to read while masturbating by the way).

So I'm curious--what are you thinking about while you twiddle your pink parts?  (As always, feel free to comment anonymously if you prefer!)

 

 

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Comments

[anonymous]

I like fantasies where I'm dominant, and he has to follow all of my commands!

[anonymous]

I like fantasies where I'm dominant, and he has to follow all of my commands!

[metro mama]

I used to fantasize about firefighters but that's real life now! whoo hoo! So now I'm all about cops (yes plural).

[slackermommy]

I fantasize about women. I'm not sure what that says about me. Am I bi? I've always preferred to look at naked women rather than naked men. They are prettier.

I so agree with slacker mommy. i love men and am completely heterosexual but i love to fantasize about women. it really gets me off when i think about sucking a woman's nipples and making her wet. i've never been with a woman and really don't want to. maybe it's because it's my boyfriend's fantasy to watch that and i like the idea of turning him on. but i agree, slacker mommy-women are way more fun to look at......

[kimmyk]

Normally it's about someone I remember from my past. *sigh* Or having a clean house will do it too. Some days it doesn't take much to make my pink parts tingle.

[anonymous]

That picture will keep me busy for a while.

[MammaLoves]

So glad to find you guys. I was just lamenting about the lack of real sex talk in the parenting blogosphere.

For me: women, men, both, dom, sub...all depends on the day.

[PA]

I totally get turned on playing submissive. I can imagine some pretty kinky strange stuff. The tied-up rape fantasy is the best. The hardest part is convincing my husband not to kiss me, because that doesn't fit in with the fantasy. I always figured I was a little off for liking this so much. I am very much the strong woman in my regular life. It is good to know I am perhaps not so messed up as I thought --well at least for this.

[Darlin_jo]

In my everyday life I am the dominant one. I dominate everyone in my life...kids, boyfriend, co-workers and friends. I am a very aggressive person and I guess that is why I have been appointed "guardian" of all of those in my life.

So when it comes down to me time I fantasize about being dominated and I mean hard-core. I want to be choked and nothing is better than being pinned down and skull-f*cked while he slaps you in the face with his hard-on!

I have been with women before and although I find them amazingly beautiful my fantasies stay with the boys.

~Darlin~

[Gunfighter]

My parts ain't pink... but for me it is all about volume, since we keep it really quiet at home, and by nature, I'm loud... um really loud.

Twosomes, groups and women - all the things I don't think I'd deal with well in RL!

[Susan]

always with a woman between my legs licking me, and my man watching the goings-on and squeezing and kissing my nipples. then after she's given me an orgasm, he wants to turn me over and give it to me hard and fast....it's his fave fantasy, too....