My O My

by hot mama

There are few things more pleasurable than a good orgasm, are there. Chocolate? Not even close. A massage? Nope. An ice-cold gin and tonic on a hot summer day? Well...no, not quite. Orgasms even trump a nice gin-induced haze.

But not all orgasms are created equal. I can get off any time in mere minutes with some strategic pressure on my clit and some naughty fantasies (I just need a little peace and quiet. And privacy. Two things in short supply around here lately). That kind of orgasm is nice: it's a release; it's relaxing; it whets my appetite for more. But it's not enough to feed the beast-I need more than that. I want the deep big O that makes my whole body shake-the kind of orgasm I can only achieve with a stiff cock in my cooter.

I don't come every time I have sex. The conditions need to be right. I'm more likely to come when I'm relaxed, rested and feeling sexy. Dirty books and movies spur me on.  I'm hornier around the time I ovulate. A little booze helps loosen me up; too many cocktails dry me out (or make me pass out).

But most importantly, Hot Daddy needs to do his job: he needs to go down on me (with feeling!); he needs to last longer than a few minutes; he needs to use a little finesse. I need to do my part too: I come a lot harder when I'm in a position where I can stimulate my clit at the same time he's fucking me. A change of scenery, a little role-playing, or some dirty talk helps me reach the climax I'm after: loud, wanton, out of control. I want to buck my hips against his like a wild stallion. I want to wake up the neighbours with my moans. I want to feel my body shudder, from the roots of my hair, to the tips of my toes.

I want more orgasms like that.

How to you reach your best orgasms? Are you reaching your potential?

Comments

[Di]

I'm with you...quick as can be...but I'm kind of like a man. Once I have mine, I'm done and want HIM to be done...like now!!! Whoever perpetuated this thing about men having to "last" forever really pisses me off. I would do it much, much more frequently if there could be more quickies!

[crazymumma]

on occasion.

I am at my best around ovulation. Then I like to get nasty.

circumstances around here do not allow the noisy I like...its stimulating you know, to let it all out?

But I find a pillow around my face lets me scream all I want.

A little bit of pre titillation works wonders, a bit of surfing on the net, a glance at a movie, some dirty talk.

gets a gal in a right nasty frame of mind.

your neighbours must just love you.

[Kyla]

Almost every time. It is a rare occassion when the fireworks don't explode. I feel quite lucky in that respect.

[MammaLoves]

I'm pretty selfish when it comes to my orgasms. I better have one if my man does.

I agree re: both penetration and clitoral stimulation. I good dildo and some pressure on the clit. I can have an amazing one all by myself. But it's fun with a partner too.