by hot mama
There's nothing like a good spanky.
It took me so long to ask hot daddy to spank me. It was something I had fantasized about for years, but never dared asked anyone to actually do. I finally got up the nerve one night after several cocktails and a jacuzzi (funny, I'm only blogging about spanking after several glasses of wine and a jacuzzi).
I have to give him credit--he took it right in stride. He put me over his knee, pulled down my panties and slapped my ass. It took a little urging on my part, but I convinced him to use a little muscle and soon I was bucking my hips and begging him to fuck me.
It was so fucking hot.
Since then spanking has become a regular part of our repertoire. We don't overuse it, and it never fails to drive me wild. Tie me to the bedpost and spank me, and I'm over the moon. I'm even starting to get a little more adventurous--I have a nice flat-backed wooden brush I handed Hot Daddy last week.
It's all about trust. There is something so incredibly sexy about being in such a vulnerable position--but I don't know if I could handle it without the amount of trust I have with HD.
Any other naughty girls out there who need to be punished? Anyone who wants a spanking and hasn't asked for it yet?
Rock on girl!!
Posted by: MammaLoves | January 20, 2008 at 11:03 PM
Couldn't agree more, it's nice but it takes a lot of trust and a firm knowledge that they will stop if you ask them too.
Posted by: Crystal Blake | January 21, 2008 at 03:44 AM
I'm a fan of the spanking. I like it a bit rough too. Pin my hands above my head. Bite... harder than that! Sometimes it's so good to be so bad!
Posted by: SassyPants | January 21, 2008 at 12:35 PM
I've had a lover spank me in the middle of sex, and because he was a total bad boy and I loved how wild we were together, it made things SO exciting! I can't imagine DH ever doing that. He wouldn't. He doesn't even feel comfortable giving me a gentle shave for fear of hurting me. *sigh*
Posted by: TSM | January 21, 2008 at 04:20 PM
I think about it EVERY TIME we have sex and have yet to work up the nerve. You would think after so many years of sex I would get up the nerve. Such a wimp.
Posted by: Amber | January 21, 2008 at 08:43 PM
I've give more than a few spankings while delivering the ol' rough and ready!
If you ply me with booze, one of these days I'll tell you the story of big red.
Hot, hot, hot.
Posted by: The Crossbowman | January 21, 2008 at 10:40 PM
I think about it but never have had the nerve to ask for it, it gets me going during sex just thinking about it. I know dh would do it if I ask, just embarrassed to ask.
Posted by: mommyof2 | January 22, 2008 at 10:55 PM
This post was just plain hot.
j.
Posted by: jason | January 23, 2008 at 01:12 PM
It took me about three years to dare to ask the Redneck to tie me up. It took another three for him to do it.
We don't do it all the time, but when we do....oh la la!
Of course, the Redneck is just plain talented.
Posted by: Jennifer Leeland | January 25, 2008 at 11:21 PM
This is one of those things we've been skirting and joking about and playing with gently for a while now, but haven't quite figured out how it's going to work. What do I really want? I'm not quite sure. I'm not sure if there's fantasy involved that I haven't worked out yet, or if it's the spanking alone. I think the tom kitten will want some direction so he doesn't get it wrong, being a new area and all, so we're still kind of feeling our way there. You're right that trust is essential in something like this - but we've been doing the tying up part forever. I will sure be interested to see what the right mix is with the spanking when we get there, though.
Posted by: sex kitten | January 27, 2008 at 01:03 PM
I want to be spanked sooo bad!! my husband WONT :( but its definately my biggest turn on.. i wish he would. Especially if im naughty. I want it to hurt at least a little n scold me i'll be begging for your cock in no time!
Posted by: stef | May 21, 2009 at 05:54 PM